I wonder why people exclaim, “Finally the couple in love got married! Happy endings!”I have always thought of love and marriage more as a journey that begins when a couple commits to be life partners. It continues throughout the life, till the moment when one of the them takes the last breath or due to an unfortunate breakup of relationship or a divorce, they separate. However, the marriage continues till the moment they are together.
Marriage gets enriched in layers with a new chapter unfolding every day. With each layer revealing a taste of love, care, adoration, respect, and exploring something new every day. Why romanticise life unnecessarily? It’s not sweet ‘nones’ all the time! Its full of scowls, arguments, anger, insecurities, fears, fights and extreme feelings of hatred too when you feel like parting ways with your partner. But the best part of this journey is the point at which you feel that you need to forget these feelings and shut your mouth to explore more happy moments of smiles, laughter and a joyous togetherness forever.
A very long journey of togetherness meant to be for just the two of them! Not always ” perfect” but definitely worthy, if it gets enriched with efforts, understanding and time..So I feel, give it a thought to make it a marriage that ends not when you get married but starts when you get married!
-Copyright 2017 Chitkala Mulye (Chitkala Aditosh
bravo…a thoughtful piece of writing is this…
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Thank you 🙂
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Great post. I agree with you, marriage is another chapter of life, bit people often term it as the end of freedom!
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But I feel the partners must let each other cherish their freedom and live like friends.. It all depend on how we understand one another!!
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True!
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😊😊
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Nice thinking
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Thank you!?
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One of the saddest comments I hear at weddings is, “This is the happiest day of your life!”
If this is so then the marriage is all downhill after the wedding.
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Yes I agree…but I feel its downhill not because of the marriage system but because of this attitude that ppl have towards marriage which affects enrichment of relationship.
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Indeed.
False expectations and over glamorization.
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Exactly
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Perhaps they mean…”so far”.
It doesn’t preclude further happiness.
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I know that’s what they mean, but at face value that comment is quite damning concerning the value of marriage. 😉
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Ok….
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That depends..
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Or a simple exclamation that is shared with those we love?
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Yes!!!
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Very well said
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Thanks a lot!!
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Thank you for checking out my blog. I’m glad you liked it. Congratulations on your followers!
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Thanks😊😊😊
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Marriage is a discovery of each other’s strengths and weaknesses, not all fun but mutual respect is required for a long-term partnership, not a desire to change the other but a support for each other’s dreams and a refuge from life’s hurts based on trust that you have each other’s backs. I like your blog, it is always good to read another’s perspective. Thanks for visiting mine, I will be sure to check back from time to time to see how you are doing.
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Thank you for your wise words..your blog is wonderful too!!! Enjoyed reading it 🙂
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