Loving someone is so difficult! You love, and you expect to be loved back.When you don’t get the much-needed reciprocation, your involvement gives you pain! You care, you yearn, you wait, you spend every second of your life thinking about that one person whom you love. But when you realize that this person whom you are so dedicated and so committed is not at all thinking about you the entire day it gives you frustration. But still you can’t stop loving.The more you are ignored the more you love and the more you invite pain.
- Copyright 2017 Chitkala Mulye (Chitkala Aditosh)
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Exactly, I so can resonate. The one who loves from the heart can’t help it.even if it’s not reciprocated.
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Yes😊😊😊
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“The more you are ignored the more you love and the more you invite pain”: Sounds familiar, I’ve known this feeling for long until I embraced self-love. With self-love, you get to love, seeking nothing in return.Plus, you get to respect yourself enough to know and stay away from those who don’t want or love you. By learning self-respect, you respect others as well.
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Ya… I completely agree…🤗🤗Even I am approaching that stage of self love
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This is a beautiful post. Feeling things deeply and profoundly, with your whole being, can be difficult and challenging at times, but as you invite pain the more you love, you also invite immense joy.
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That’s right…
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Your closing line hit home for me. Felt that in so many ways. Beautifully written.
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So true!
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😊
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So true, and usually the more prolonged and unattainable your love is, the more intense your thoughts are all day long. Human nature wants what it can’t have and even pain is intensified.
For some reason the computer I am on isn’t allowing me to like your post. I will try back. Thank you for coming to mynameisjamie.net. I am in Texas this week and today I went to visit Jamie in prison. (The Cage) I make the trip about once a year. He has been in almost 13 years with four to go. I’ve written a lot of poetry and music for him
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Thank u soo much… that’s great…all the best to ur visits
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If you don’t love yourself Chitkala you will never be able to love others so love yourself first. My parents always spoke these words to us, and I never forgot them. I am now 74 and believe me, no truer words were ever spoken. Self-love is the light that shines from your soul.
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Very true!!!I completely agree
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Thanks!!
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Where u were
I missed u chitu 😦
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The more you are ignored the more you love and the more you invite pain,
Its like giving benefit of doubt, may be some day, some other day, he will miss, may be !!!
Remembrance is a hard thing to deal with.
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The other person misses or remembers u according to his own need so it becomes harder to deal…meed can be created with scarcity…but it can never be true success of love.
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I have finally come to grips with the fact that I am not as important to the other as they are to me, thus, I will focus my attentions and affections elsewhere. Probably get several dogs and become a recluse. Just a thought still in the planning stages.
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Hmmm… I understand
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I can completely relate to this! Thank you
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Thanks a lott!!
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yeah…we expect a lot..wr expect them to treat us in a way we treat them. If not happened…leads to frustration and hurt
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Yes. Right
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Hence…vicious cycle. Expertly penned.
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M glad u liked it!!!!
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So True…. Love is an irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired…
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Yes… perfectly said
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Actually, sort of love/hate this, because it is so true. You basically put a yearning heart’s confused, unrequited love into words. Good writing!
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Thanks a lottttt😊😊😊
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