The dynamics in human relationships is dependent on that hidden thing in our hearts. The person who is capable of maneuvering that sensitive part of us emerges powerful! Did you guess what that thing can be? That little sensitive thing is EGO!
Every person in this world struggles to preserve his or her ‘self’. Nobody likes to let anyone hurt that self or emotions associated with it. This is nothing but ego.
If we pamper someone’s ego, the person feels happy and when we hurt it, the person feels offended. Very natural isn’t it? All of us feel bad when criticized and feel good when praised. None of us like when someone behaves with us the way it hurts our ego. So all complications in this world are caused by playing with this sensitive thing. The dynamics in human relationships is pivoted on this sensitive thing, isn’t it? Don’t you think that it has such huge potential to break and make?
Ego makes us feel offended ego and it makes us defend ourselves. Ego helps us grow and ego teaches us lessons too. Ego builds up relations at the same time ego can destroy them. Ego keeps you grounded but ego can punish you too. Ego can provoke wars and ego can initiate peace!
What makes a difference is how this ego is treated and by whom!!
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