I see people expressing love, displaying their affection so extravagantly. I also see people keeping their feelings to themselves loving silently and deeply. The dynamics of these feelings, expressions, and reciprocation is so complex that it leaves me baffled! If you express a lot to those whom you love , they feel good and happy. But if you feel the same level of affection at the same time and they don’t reciprocate you, it leaves you hurt and in pain.
But not all are capable to express their love and some preferably don’t . If you don’t feel, but you express your love lavishly, you feel less of pain. This comes with a side effect.. it deprives your love of passion. Despite this side effect, it helps the other way round. When your love lacks intensity, you don’t realize when your love is not reciprocated. This is more easy said than done.
Is that the only way to protect ourselves from getting hurt, express more feel less and get more love? The more sincere and genuine the love is the more silent it is. But if you don’t express you are left unloved..
What do you think should be done, should the love run deep or that empty heart should make more noise?
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