Relationship coaching for long distance relationship.
Author: Chitkala Aditosh (Chitkala Mulye)
Chitkala is the founder of 'Chitkala's Gateway to Happiness'. She is an NLP and REBT certified life coach specialized in relationship and personal coaching, a poet and a writer.
Managing emotions
Self- confidence
My eyes saw the greys
My eyes saw the greys,And dropped many tears,I faced disillusionments,With many hidden fears, My eyes saw the greys,In my near and dear,Killing my emotions,Drying up my tear, My eyes saw the greys,And lost their sight,Gone was innocence,Seeing no ray of light. Copyright 2020 Chitkala Mulye (Chitkala Aditosh
The rain drops whisper
The rain drops whisper, The story of my life, The spaces of my hurt, The words of my healing, And of my lost emotions, Which vanished behind those for smiles; The rain drops whisper , The flame of hope, Burning in my heart, Kindled with pain, Waiting for a sunrise, To bloom the crushed bud [...]
Swimming in you
I am swimming in you, With you all over me, Inside my skin, Deep in my breath, Feeling your wetness, Cherished in my heart; I am swimming in you, Forgetting the past, Unaware of the present, Thoughtless of the future, Transcending the boundaries, Of space and time, Feeling you in every moment, Slowly enveloping your [...]
Say good bye to addiction
Changing perspective and spreading happiness
One step towards happy life
Bathing in your magic
On the canvas of a deep, dark night, You bathed me in your colour so bright; Dressing me up with diamonds in the sky, Dazzling in your enticing charm, feeling high; Under the shadows of the dancing tree, Your love embraced the yearning in me; I rejuvenated in the perfume of the flowers, Getting drenched [...]
Bringing back confidence
Help LGBTQ
A testimonial for my counselling
Life on track
A soul meet
I shut my tired eyes, I pronounce your name, Swallowing a tear, Slowly, loudly, and rhythmically, I clearly pronounce your name, My soul crosses the boundaries of space and time searching for you, To ask you questions for which I have no answers, For I know, there is only you who knows those, I say [...]
Healed heart
I loved, I craved, I yearned and for you I felt, Your words burnt my heart and so I knelt; Then my deep wounds bled and hurt, Itched and pained with the 'past' dirt; My heart is now dry, arid and rough, Once wet emotions have a rust so tough; Left with no emotions and [...]
Focus!!
Testimonial for life coaching
A bright night
I sit under the beautiful deep blue sky dark,Engulfed in the diamond studded blanket black;In the calm, peaceful, tranquil silence of the realm,I search love, passion and chase a wild dream;On the clouds of thoughts on my heart's canvas vast,I paint my fantasies in my world feeling so lost;I fly to the mountain top of [...]
Fighting pessimism
A testimonial for my counselling by a doctor
The doused spark
The spark of love which glowed so bright, It was killed by the sudden severe storm, A storm which killed charm, passion and life, A passion and charm in which she bathed for long, The charm that lit her life in love, Burgeoning her lively and evergreen, It is gone forever and so is the [...]
Towards a happy family life
Counselling some one to lead a happy family life
Moving on
Testimonial for breakup counselling
Embracing optimism
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Happy Happiness Day
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Your thoughts came to me
Your thoughts came to me like a breeze of sunshine,Glowing my face golden, making your charm mine; Your thoughts came to me like the dawn of hope,Illuminating my life dark forcing my fear to elope; Your thoughts came to me like the moon so bright,Giving my dreams wings to smile and fly at night; Your [...]
Stress management
Life coaching
Emotional independence
Skies to eyes
10,000 followers!!!
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My emotions ran away
My life was blessed with happiness,My sensitive emotions then ran a race,When problems knocked my door,My dried emotions made me feel sore,Feeling weaker with dismay,I determined to find a way,To survive and become strong,To tears, I sang a good-bye song,Hurt by my rejection,Me, my emotions decided to shun,So one very odd day,All my emotions ran [...]
Forgiveness
When we suffer in life, our heart gets caught under the dark clouds of negative feelings for those who were responsible for it. The moment we retrospect, the pain surfaces and clogs our happy thoughts. It blocks our way and stops us from moving ahead with positivity. If we forget about who made us suffer, [...]
Relationship made easy
My story of Valentine’s Day
Valentine's Day has been a contraversial topic in India, socially as well as personally. Today I feel like sharing how the feelings about this day changed as I went through different phases of my life. When I stepped into my teenage, I always wanted to find someone with whom I could celebrate this day. Whenever [...]
Reviving relationship
This is a WhatsApp testimonial is by an engineer who had a long distance relationship with her boyfriend staying in US. (Note : Name in the whatsapp message is purposely removed to hide her identity)
Overcoming depression
Here is how I helped Anand Waghmare, a police officer (name changed ). To see him smile and become himself after a week was very satisfying
Decision making
Khushboo is a fashion designer. Here is her testimonial!Thank you Khushboo for sharing your testimonial☺️
Money: pivot of power or happiness
At that very moment I realized that I was still into my simple shoes and this was just an imagination! I felt glad that rather than being on the top of the mountain of gold I was standing contented on the mountain of happiness😊😊 The world revolves around money but I never believed in this. [...]
The river of culture
Read my article published on the Reader's blog of 'The Times of India' https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/readersblog/the-words-untrammelled/the-river-of-culture-9880/
Once upon a time
Once upon a time my smile reflected in your eyes and so did my tears, The delicate moments between our blushes bloomed flowers which bathed us in their perfume, Today those memories have vanished in the sand storm which stood between your charm and me, Seperating our souls forever... The storms attacked the sand dunes [...]
Liberation!!
The thundering heart like the cloud full of trapped emotions exploded with a big bang. It vanished in the brightness of the scorching sun leaving my eyes filled with darkness. Time passed with the speed of light and soon the night spread its wings. The thoughts in my mind unclimbed the hurdle full cliff of [...]
Nothing lasts long
When the hurricane and the hot sun, The flower beds they wilt and burn; Drying up trees lively lush green, Destroying nature's tranquility serene; A destined wind takes the petals away, Shaking the trees hard, making branches sway; The memories hidden in the lifeless dry leaves, Are roughly washed away from the trees; The precious [...]
Changing definitions: trust, loyalty and love
Love like the flowing river has changed its colours and definitions every generation. Gone are those days where loyalty spoke of true love! Infact the definition of loyalty itself has been chamging over a period of time. Relationships are tested on the backdrop of multi stage extra marital under currents. The meaning of trust has [...]
Dedicated to a fairy
One dark day sung a blissful birdie, "There in your womb waiting is a baby"; Afraid was I for my life was so tough, The path I walked was very much rough; Worried was I to put a step ahead, All I could feel was horrid and dread; The seas of pain had drowned me [...]
The magic of motherhood
The moment I heard your soothing first cry, My waiting heart heaved a relieved sigh; Your hungry petals and searching eyes, In no time knitted those forever love ties; Our eyes met and your lips my love sought, My pains sublimed and solace you brought; My fountain of love emanated with your sight, Tired I, [...]
The shelter of darkness
The scary stark light very bright, Is the reason behind my fright; The darkness you find fearful, Dresses me pretty and beautiful; Afraid I am to face myself in light, For I will lose my optimistic sight; The dark is understanding and kind, It makes me feel pretty when I am blind; This darkness creates [...]
How I wish ..
I wish to surrender my body, I wish to gift you my soul, When I burn in your fire again, With a hope to become a whole; I try to close my tearful eyes, With a hope to see you again, To show those pieces of heart, Shattered in rejection and pain; I crave for [...]
In the heaven of your love
I wait for you to spread your strong arms, Embracing me with the magic of your charms; Like the high tide of the serene blue sea, Your passion captures and rolls over me; You calm me with the power of your breeze, With an enticing suffocating and naughty tease; My heart gets drenched in the [...]
I drift away..
I float deep in the dark ocean of grief, The pain enters me and I can no longer breathe, I need peace and so I avoid every strife, I close my eyes for I shun this life, My emotions with my soul slowly drift away, To explore my spirit to find its own way, My [...]
The sea of your love
I float on the sea of your love, Gliding on the waves of care, Swinging on the breezy moments, Pleasantly wet in your sultry air; Wrapped in the sea blanket of love, Your comforting hands guide me, Feeling lively in your charming splash, Of the vast, engulfing love like the sea, I get drenched in [...]
Motherhood from a different perspective
The foundation of motherhood is laid in the adolescent age of a girl when she has her menses for the first time. Initially accepting the fact that this will be there throughout her life is very difficult to digest..She feels its a curse on womanhood and eventually accepts it. One fine day she gets pregnant. [...]
Out of coverage area..
How many of you believe in telepathy? There was a time I did not believe in it too..However, there were some sentimental moments when I was proved wrong. Lying on the bed with heart full of intense emotions for some loved one, I used to express my emotions before I slept. When I badly missed [...]
Love…a strength
"Love is a waste of time it only makes you weaker and vulnerable.." This is what those deprived of love in life say. They restrain themselves from letting their emotions flow building a shell around their hearts. They don't let themselves get drenched in the feelings and remain dry and emotionless. Love is eternal and [...]
Sleepy cuddles
There she lies beside him with open eyes searching him in the dark. He is lying down on the bed snoring and sleeping sound. His eyes tired with the day's work are helplessly asleep. What separates them on the cosy little bed is the small distance that is needed to allow him a comfortable sleep. [...]
The hurricane of destiny
I sketched your memories with sand grains of my emotions. I had thought, I had caged them in my heart forever. But then came the hurricane of destiny. The wind of time blew rough and cold and messed the sand grains of my emotions. The lightening of the sudden unexpected shock shook my heart. The [...]
I won strength
You see my strength and not the pain, You don't see my loss but just my gain, You see me smile and my happy face, But the scars hidden, you may never trace, My eyes are dry, now they dare not weep, My hidden wounds lie in my heart so deep, They have healed, but [...]
Possessiveness- a blemish on love
How difficult it is, to see someone whom you love like someone else! But if this love is true, you will never end up controlling and restricting their life. You will always let your loved one free. Love is like a butterfly 🦋! The more you chase it, the farther it flies. The more you [...]
Beauty and the beast
(This is a symbolic poem based on the fairy tale 'Beauty and the beast' . It shows how love can cure the negatives in a person caused by the situations and conditions in life. No man is good or bad..the situations make him that way) She knew the dark chambers of his heart, She knew [...]
Coloring the dreams
Dedicated to my dad.. Late Dr. Ashutosh Mulye Everyday I meet you in my dreams, The dreams in bits and pieces, I hear your silence, I see your smiles, Smiles and silence that dissolve in the dark... The black and white stories, I see them linkless, Remembering them over and over, Then I add some [...]
Loosen happiness boundaries
'Life & happiness' has always been my favorite topic to think and talk all the time. Pursuit of happiness is a continuous process which leaves us with infinite revelations. I would like to share a recent thing that enlightened me when my life took one of the worst roller coaster rides. We always have set [...]
Demon of fear
Sleepless nights, anxious mind, and horrifying nightmares ...and then comes in picture the fear of the 'demon of fear'. Even the feeling of facing this 'demon of fear' makes us feel so fearful. Then comes the time when you have to face this 'demon of fear'. The moment you turn around in the darkness of [...]
Haunting love
I tore your picture in my memories into pieces, which flowed down through my eyes as droplets of tears. Infinite tears spread over me, glistening with the refelctions of your face, still very safe in my heart...haunting me with your love once again!!! Copyright 2019 Chitkala Mulye (Chitkala Aditosh) Follow me on my social networks! [...]
His love chose her freedom
A flower bloomed bright, A boy fell in love with her, He plucked and held her in his hand, He smelt and caressed her petals, But then crushed the pretty thing in his hands, Tore her petal heart and threw on the grass with a devilish smile on his face... There came another boy, He [...]
I walked away..
Yes..I walked away. No...I wasn't a coward. I walked away when I became strong.. realizing they aren't worth my time and energy. I fought the battles, I also won them. I put together all my strength for the good and the truth but there I lost, for the evil doesn't value either. So today, I [...]
When I missed you..
The lush leaves rustled and the breeze blew, They reminded me that I still miss you; The full moon showed me a very bright light, When I walked your absence in the starless night, The sun brightened up my dull lifeless face, When in my eyes the sad tears ran a race, The wind whispered [...]
The breeze at dawn
The silence spread over me like the dark night engulfing my soul. The storm of my feelings was showing its tantrums. The high tide of my emotions dashed on some pieces of my heart turned into rocks. The chaos of the tornado of grief deafened my ears. The clouds of gloom over my eyes soon [...]
The ship of my life
The ship of my life sailed so calm, It sailed under the vast azure blue, The wonderful wind of time guided it, Until it met an 'incredible YOU'! The ship of my life sailed in your sea, Relishing your moods weird and glee, On the ups and downs of your waves, In the warm, cloudy, [...]
I miss…’US’
"I could never say 'I miss you!'. The very reason is 'I miss you' is too shallow! Missing someone is so complex! Missing is not just about the rememberence of the flashbacks of butterflies in stomach, exciting eyemeets, long deep dives in eyes, shy gazes and often those eyeshifts to the floor. It's more than [...]
Butterfly of your love
The little butterfly you sent, came to see me, Soon your fragrance filled the gloom air with glee, Black it was, yet it colored my greys with you, Blushing me in your love pink, me it tried to woo, Hovering over me, my waiting lips it kissed, Showering your nectar which I craved and missed, [...]
Even today..
Time flew fast carrying away moments with ease, All it left behind were those mirthful memories; My eyesight is hazy with a small drop of tear, I can still see your face, very bright and clear; Your name engraved in my heart is still so intact, Unerasable it was! The time waves had no impact; [...]
We are humans first!
Celebrations are going on...showers of posts on facebook, whatsapp, twitter, newspapers, television and where not? The pink is in the air! Everyone is speaking about the multitasker 'super woman'. She is a 'super woman' today and just a 'woman' the other days. Isn't it the time to tell people how special you are but the [...]
A part of you is forever mine
There you walk in the hostile crowd, you are always very one with it. You feel aloof and alone sometimes, please don't say no, I have noticed it! The true you is hidden, behind the new fancy face you wear. But the fake people who surround you, about the 'real you', they never care. So [...]
The other side of tearless eyes
Once upon a time I was very proud of being an emotional person. I considered emotions to be the only sign of liveliness. On the other hand I always saw practicality as heartlessness. As I saw more life, I realized that emotions have invited numerous scars on my heart. When I cherished extreme pleasure I [...]
Self realization
Once upon a time I struggled to understand my potential. Neither had I thought of utilizing my potential nor had I thought to expand its horizons and test its limits. I did not realize who I was and what I was capable of doing... Till ...I started thinking about it. There I began, the journey [...]
Eternal happiness – a mind trick
Eternal happiness is difficult to realize as happy moments don't last long. Perhaps, that is the reason why some of us feel that eternal happiness is a myth. But this holds true if we think of happiness on a shorter span of time. Nothing lasts long and how can happy moments be an exception to [...]
House warming
Whispering in my ear, a jolly little bird said, "Here is your dream home, for you it is made", It's lovely pleasing sight made my eyes shine, My heart said, "Yes!! This is very much mine" Here ends my long search and all is done, Let's not wait! It's our time to have some fun, [...]
Chanting your name
I chanted your name.. The rose petals spread across my face in an effortless bloom of my smile. I chanted your name again.. It felt like those first rain showers enlivening, rejuvenating me with an eternal charming and dazzle I chanted your name one more time.. The enormous wave of bliss, confidence and strength spread [...]
Gateway to happiness..your smile is precious!!
In the hustle life when we run in the crowds with lonely hearts and no trustworthy ear to hear our woes. I have started a new venture 'Gateway to happiness' to listen to your problems, help you find a solution, change your perspective about life and bring a smile on your face. Empty your heart, [...]
The flyover to happiness
My article published in Times of India!!! https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/readersblog/the-words-untrammelled/the-flyover-to-happiness-1714/ Read and share😇😇
The virtual ‘YOU’
I opened my moist eyes. It was pitch dark. My feet were frozen and I couldn't step ahead. I tried again and I fell down on my knees. My knees hurt and bled. I remembered your helping hand that supported me whenever I fell. You had taught me how to stand on my feet when [...]
Hamzad
Tum mere palkonme bas gaye ho, Tum meri sansoome sama gaye ho, Kaun kehta hai tum juda ho muzhse, Tum to mere hamzad ban gaye ho 🙂 Copyright 2018 Chitkala Mulye (Chitkala Aditosh) Follow me on my social networks! Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/chitkaladitosh https://www.facebook.com/Chitkalamulye/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/chitkalamulye Twitter: https://twitter.com/Chitkaladitosh?s=08
We are humans too!
"Be a man!"(Oh! So being a woman is something shameful right?😣).. "The cave man was a hunter and gatherer.." (So it seems women did not exist that time!Or were women cave wives that time and could not hunt or gather food ??🤣) Wait! I am sure you must have wondered why am I quoting such [...]
The magical power of immuneness
Silence is more powerful than words and poise even more powerful than a fight. We waste a huge amount of energy in fighting unnecessary battles and bombarding others with futile words. It is indeed a waste of time and energy. All it does is it destroys our internal peace. The real strength in us lies [...]
An angel in the dark
I walked down the dungeons dark, On the rough path of realities so stark, Voices yelled and howled at me, I ran for help and hurt my knee, I groped in the dark to find my way, But at every step, fear blocked my way, Soon I heard his footsteps slow, His enchanting voice deep [...]
..and I smiled
A tear peeped out of my eye to smell your fragrance emanating from the lost memories..it swimmed in it sucking the nectar like life from those misty memories..it jumped out to take a deep dive in it..to get drenched in the passion.. and vanished...lighting up my face with an evergreen smile 😊 Copyright 2018 Chitkala [...]
Change begins with us
I loved to control the situations around me. I tried my best to change them. But I failed..Do you know why? I did not know that if we need to change the world the change begins from us!!!! That was the turning point in my life when I began to introspect why I failed. The [...]
Lost smiles
I wonder where I lost my lively serene smile, To search that smile I walked long miles, In the desert dead, burning in flames, There I stand amidst those hot sand dunes, I spot the trail of the foot prints you had left, And the place from where you disappeared, I trace the foot prints [...]
The illusions of the fog
She walked wearily with her eyes blind, On a foggy road leaving her sight behind; Soon she saw a face her eyes knew well, On this face once she loved to dwell; With a gush of wind the face vanished, Came a smirky face with purity tarnished; Its lips smirked and eyes shone with smile, [...]
It’s not my birthday its my rebirth!!
It's my birthday today! I realize I am 27 now! I am neither happy that I am one year older nor I am happy for spending 27 long years of my life. I am happy because I have grown by more number of years just in a single year. I have seen more of life! [...]
Fight with the night
The night spread out like a demon waiting for his prey, intimidating, frightening and filling up every corner of my heart with fear. Asking me to fight or flee in the pitch darkness at my every step. The ghosts of nightmares attacking me and then the time to slow it down. I lie on the [...]
The flame of love
I see the love drop invisible in your eyes, It looks at the drop subdued in my heart's sighs, Neither does it show it's there nor does it see mine, Still it waits there alone despite the destined wind's tries; I feel the warm flame in your hidden heart glow, Wish you would have seen [...]
The seeds you sowed
My life was an arid, dry land in tears, Your words showered bringing smiles, Leading me to the world of happiness, Taking away my heavy bundle of toils; Your powerful words healed my heart, In my life, sowing that magical thought, The blunt and weak got sharp and strong, It was then.. those bold battles [...]
Winter
How can you be like the wonderful winter, Being cold and warm at the same time, Running your fingers on me like the breeze, Making me sing like a wind chime! Copyright 2018 Chitkala Mulye (Chitkala Aditosh) Follow me on my social networks! Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/chitkaladitosh https://www.facebook.com/Chitkalamulye/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/chitkalamulye Twitter: https://twitter.com/Chitkaladitosh?s=08
Treasuring someone
We meet infinite people in our lives. Some people are so precious that we can never forget them. They should be preserved and cherished in the form of their thoughts and actions. They leave their indelible footprints in our lives. As time flows we have to leave such worthy special someones behind and move ahead [...]
Too many facets😏
Human being is so complex! So many faces and so many dimensions! When we get to know a person we hardly know a face or two of this incredible complex being. As we proceed in our life, we take a look from different perspectives and get to see different faces from new dimensions. That's where [...]
Replacement
Everyone seems to be unique, but even the uniqueness is no good at times when you are replaced by someone so easily. This is the most painful period in life, that you know you have given in your life and blood for something or someone yet someone replaced you. You may be an epitome of [...]
The uncontrollable force within
I have heard many saying .."I wanted to do it but the situations suppressed me..people around me were not supportive..I did not get a conducive environment for my growth.." Nah..I don't agree with them. Strong emotions of love for someone or something intensified with dedication and commitment...nothing stops them from growing. Nothing stops them from [...]
When the eyes met
Your eyes met mine and lit a bright spark, Like the sudden lightning in the night dark; Your elated eyes shone, giving me a bold jolt, Striking a fire in us with a thunderbolt; Your eyes touched mine giving a feeling divine, Like the rain showers in a warm sunshine; Your eyes held deep, my [...]
The flame and the fire
I lit a flame of hope in my heart, To spread the optimism in the dark; It was bright, bold and beautiful, My dull, lull life was so delightful; The flame soon turned into a fire, The fire of expectations and desire, The urge to have more and more, Burning the heart with the scars [...]
Setting the wrong right
We end up with wrong people, wrong career paths, and wrong decisions. What decides your future is not your wrong, but the ability to rise after you fall and set the wrong right. That's the time when you have to mould yourself, make yourself more flexible to adjust to fit where you exist and flow [...]
