Motherhood from a different perspective

The foundation of motherhood is laid in the adolescent age of a girl when she has her menses for the first time. Initially accepting the fact that this will be there throughout her life is very difficult to digest..She feels its a curse on womanhood and eventually accepts it. One fine day she gets pregnant. [...]

I walked away..

Yes..I walked away. No...I wasn't a coward. I walked away when I became strong.. realizing they aren't worth my time and energy. I fought the battles, I also won them. I put together all my strength for the good and the truth but there I lost, for the evil doesn't value either. So today, I [...]

We are humans first!

Celebrations are going on...showers of posts on facebook, whatsapp, twitter, newspapers, television and where not? The pink is in the air! Everyone is speaking about the multitasker 'super woman'. She is a 'super woman' today and just a 'woman' the other days. Isn't it the time to tell people how special you are but the [...]

Self realization

Once upon a time I struggled to understand my potential. Neither had I thought of utilizing my potential nor had I thought to expand its horizons and test its limits. I did not realize who I was and what I was capable of doing... Till ...I started thinking about it. There I began, the journey [...]

Eternal happiness – a mind trick

Eternal happiness is difficult to realize as happy moments don't last long. Perhaps, that is the reason why some of us feel that eternal happiness is a myth. But this holds true if we think of happiness on a shorter span of time. Nothing lasts long and how can happy moments be an exception to [...]

Gateway to happiness..your smile is precious!!

In the hustle life when we run in the crowds with lonely hearts and no trustworthy ear to hear our woes. I have started a new venture 'Gateway to happiness' to listen to your problems, help you find a solution, change your perspective about life and bring a smile on your face. Empty your heart, [...]

The flyover to happiness

My article published in Times of India!!! https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/readersblog/the-words-untrammelled/the-flyover-to-happiness-1714/ Read and share­čśç­čśç Follow me on my social networks! Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/chitkaladitosh https://www.facebook.com/Chitkalamulye/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/chitkalamulye Twitter: https://twitter.com/Chitkaladitosh?s=08

The magical power of immuneness

Silence is more powerful than words and poise even more powerful than a fight. We waste a huge amount of energy in fighting unnecessary battles and bombarding others with futile words. It is indeed a waste of time and energy. All it does is it destroys our internal peace. The real strength in us lies [...]

Change begins with us

I loved to control the situations around me. I tried my best to change them. But I failed..Do you know why? I did not know that if we need to change the world the change begins from us!!!! That was the turning point in my life when I began to introspect why I failed. The [...]

Treasuring someone

We meet infinite people in our lives. Some people are so precious that we can never forget them. They should be preserved and cherished in the form of their thoughts and actions. They leave their indelible footprints in our lives. As time flows we have to leave such worthy special someones behind and move ahead [...]

Replacement

Everyone seems to be unique, but even the uniqueness is no good at times when you are replaced by someone so easily.  This is the most painful period in life, that you know you have given in your life and blood for something or someone yet someone replaced you. You may be an epitome of [...]

The uncontrollable force within

I have heard many saying .."I wanted to do it but the situations suppressed me..people around me were not supportive..I did not get a conducive environment for my growth.." Nah..I don't agree with them. Strong emotions of love for someone or something intensified with dedication and commitment...nothing stops them from growing. Nothing stops them from [...]

Setting the wrong right

We end up with wrong people, wrong career paths, and wrong decisions. What decides your future is not your wrong, but the ability to rise after you fall and set the wrong right. That's the time when you have to mould yourself, make yourself more flexible to adjust to fit where you exist and flow [...]

Dependency..an attitude

The sun bathes the trees in its warmth, and the trees grow and bloom in the showers. All elements of nature are interdependent. Nature itself exists on interdependence. But when it comes to human beings may it be a physical emotional or financial dependency we feel insecure. However, dependency is an attitude and not a condition. [...]

Earn it!

We struggle with our emotions thinking we are not getting enough. We go on expecting after we put in efforts in relationships. As time passes we expect everything would get better.. But that never happens! Eventually we feel the other person does not reciprocate and we give up or begin to think that she doesn't [...]

Don’t LET!

Are you hurt? Are you sad? Who was the one who made you feel so bad? Did anyone insult you? Did anyone embarrass you? Yes??? Now I will ask you.. why even did you allow someone to do so? Baffled??? I believe no one can hurt you without your own permission. Neither can one cheat [...]

That sensitive part of us!

The dynamics in human relationships is dependent on that hidden thing in our hearts. The person who is capable of maneuvering that sensitive part of us emerges powerful! Did you guess what that thing can be? That little sensitive thing is EGO! Every person in this world struggles to preserve his or her 'self'. Nobody [...]

More power to all!

Many of us are weaklings during our child hood, teenage, and sometimes even throughout our life. Life is not easy for weaklings. Its a always a tough time.. undeserved criticism..blames for uncommitted mistakes.. fear of rejections.. lost arguments.. bullying and what not! All these weaklings have a constant feeling of low confidence, low self esteem [...]

Feel grateful..or else the worst times in life will teach you..

Setbacks in life best teach you the value of happiness. When the whole world is constantly finding rational and spiritual ways to pursuit of happiness; I feel intense grief can only be the easiest way to teach this art of achievement of eternal bliss. When life takes you through the most unexpected and inadvertent twists [...]

Struggle

When a seedling sprouts, it has to emerge from the heavy soil growing upward. It has to use all its strength to let it survive in the intense sun and sometimes in paucity water. This is struggle, survival and success. No one in this world can ever escape struggle. The person who doesn't struggle becomes [...]

Could lowering of puberty age be the reason?

"Even I have a girlfriend," said a ten-year-old kid. I was surprised. There was a time when having a boyfriend or a girlfriend was a status symbol during our junior college days. Things have changed now! It's a status symbol for kids too! Not just that, but we also hear cases of a kid trying [...]

One stress at a time!

Life has become so fast! There are so many fronts that need to be handled all at a time. Your girlfriend is angry with you, the boss has piled up work for you, your dear pet has to be hospitalized and the list is never-ending. The clock runs faster than we can imagine. The more [...]

How difficult it is!!

I live life passionately to enjoy the best smiles and the happiest moments. I get fully immersed in whatever I do, whatever I like and whatever I wish to achieve. But the worst part of this habit is, whenever you don't get what you want, you end up getting depressed. Buddhism says, desire is the [...]

Right or wrong

Right and wrong are so relative words. When our life is caught in the tangles of right and wrong, we are unable to justify our thoughts and acts. What comes up in the tornado of the right or wrong conflict is the guilt. Guilt imprisons our souls and burdens our conscience. So close your eyes [...]

A ‘good morning’ made my day

I entered my office security gate with sleepy eyes and Monday blues. Like every day I opened my handbag for the daily security check process. This is the most irritating thing of the day I feel. It takes more time when I am late and have to punch in at the earliest. I hate this [...]

100 shades of grey..

The art of forgiving is indeed a difficult thing to learn! But once inculcated, makes life easier and happier. It helps heal painful moments and sleepless nights waking us up to see a brighter sunshine. Though we blame the world for being unfair, we can never ignore that nothing lasts for long.  Change,  being the law [...]

Time

My best friend is "Time", It's my magician divine; It helps win knotty negotiations, It charms up ruptured relations; Giving a lot of ┬ápatience, The thoughts it enlightens; Time unravels the masks filthy, It catches the crooked and guilty; With time you burgeon and grow, Becoming ripe and mellow ­čÖé -Chitkala Copyright 2017 Chitkala Mulye [...]

Diversification of happiness

When the world is grappling with the pursuit happiness, I have my own 'funda' - diversification of happiness. We invest our interests and emotions in a few people, situations, activities and often end up saying "Nothing is going right!". We have dreams and ambitions for which we crave desperately. When these dreams are shattered into pieces [...]

Utopic delusion

Welcome to the Utopic World!!  Who said life can't be perfect!  A beauty mode photo can hide the dark spots and pimples and make disappear your old age wrinkles.. making you look ever green and young. The technology  magician has fulfilled the dreams of actors who wanted to be singers.. The magician blessed them with [...]